A few years back, I declared July 5th Interdependence Day. Although I did celebrate, I never actually got around to posting about it. So here we go!
Here's what I am think this year for my Interdependence Day resolution (you all make those, right?). We all need to to stop hiding our light. I was raised Catholic. Although I rarely practice anymore, I am still pretty much in line with the basic dogma. I've just had big problems with the administration and the interpretation of that dogma. Lately I've been thinking about the whole "don't tell anyone about your good deeds" thing and I have decided to cry bullshit on it.
We must be kind to each other and we absolutely must tell other people about it. We have to sing it to the mountaintops and act as we would like others to act toward us. And everyone else should see us do it--not to make them feel bad or for us to feel that we are somehow better--but to show people what the lingering consequences are of kindness. Our world as individuals becomes a better place when we are kind and our society cannot exist without the experience of individuals.
So go out. Do something nice. Tell people what you did. Repeat. Oh, and by the way, when people start doing kind things for you (which I am quite certain that they already have, we've just been programmed not to notice it) make sure you sing their song loud and proud as well.
Here are 10 easy things to do that won't cost you anything (or much):
1. Hold the door.
2. Hold the elevator (that's a biggie for me).
3. Greet people, even strangers, when you see them.
4. Beep and wave when you pass a friend (or even an acquaintance) on the street.
5. Compliment a stranger (but only if it is genuine).
6. Talk to a child. And I mean really talk. Ask them what their favorite book is. Show them something cool. Whatever. Don't just tell them their cute. Cute fades. Nice doesn't.
7. Change the litter box without having to be told 20 times (maybe that's just me).
8. Give blood. It's so easy and they give you cookies when you are done.
9. Give up your seat on the bus or train for someone who needs it. Or let someone get into your lane at a toll.
10. The next time you're grabbing a cup of coffee at the deli, and you have an extra buck, ask the counter person to charge you for two. Then tell them that is up to them to decide who gets a free cup of coffee.
I'm sure you can come up with dozens more.
Go! Now! Shine your light!
P.S. Number 11 was going to be "Teach someone to knit".